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		<title>Don’t Assume Your Managers Are Addressing Problem Behavior: Free Activity</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2011 04:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For most supervisors and managers, having to discipline employees is the worst part of their jobs. It is an uncomfortable process they would rather avoid. And unfortunately, many do avoid it, to everyone’s disadvantage: theirs, the organization’s and the employee’s. Or, some managers act emotionally when disciplinary problems arise. But either reaction creates more problems [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">For most supervisors and managers, having to discipline employees is the worst part of their jobs. It is an uncomfortable process they would rather avoid. And unfortunately, many do avoid it, to everyone’s disadvantage: theirs, the organization’s and the employee’s. Or, some managers act emotionally when disciplinary problems arise. But either reaction creates more problems than it solves.<span id="more-853"></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">There is a better way to handle disciplinary issues, based on the organization’s need for top-level performance by all employees. When discipline is approached in a logical, positive framework, focused on bringing performance up to par, the emotion can be taken out of the equation and real improvement can be made. Every workplace is different, but the relationships between employees and their supervisors, and between employees and the organization as a whole, are based on a fundamental requirement: wages are traded for performance. When performance is not up to standards, it is the manager’s job to work with the employee to bring them back up to the required level. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Traditionally, we have focused on punishment as the most direct way to deal with performance problems. But this approach can backfire when applied to adults on the job, because it can be humiliating to the employee. And, if it is humiliating, the manager’s actions will lead to anger, resentment, and reduced performance – not the improvement they were hoping for. Every disciplinary action is different because you are working with unique individuals who have life experiences, expectations, and emotional needs you know nothing about. Managers need a process that allows for these circumstances, and for the employee involved to play a key role in the resolution of the problem. You also need a process that focuses on the issues, not the personalities involved.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">The first step in a disciplinary process – and the only one this article deals with – is identifying the performance gap. By focusing on the gap between expected behavior and actual behavior, supervisors can take an objective approach to the problem, leaving the subjective and personal issues out of it. Emotional responses to employee problems cloud the issue and inhibit reaching the true goal: improved performance. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><strong>Activity: Identifying the Performance Problem </strong></span></p>
<p>The most important part of identifying and understanding a performance problem is separating the facts from your judgments and opinions.</p>
<p>Listen to the difference in these two ways of describing the same problem:</p>
<p>• You are expected to complete and submit your daily production reports before leaving for the day.<br />
• You’ve caused a lot of screw-ups on the second shift because of your lazy attitude toward production paperwork.</p>
<p>What is the difference between these statements?<br />
• The first approach deals with the facts – behaviors that are observable.<br />
• The second statement is loaded with judgment and opinion – subjective statements that attack the person, rather than focusing on the problem.</p>
<p>Looking at this situation, why might these production reports be important?<br />
• They may affect other shifts, customer deliveries, the ordering of new parts, or other downstream processes.</p>
<p>So what is the real purpose of discipline in this situation?</p>
<p>Look for the following answer:<br />
• To improve performance!</p>
<p>The purpose of employee discipline is to close the performance gap between what you need the employee to do and what they are actually doing.  Let’s see how we can apply this to our own employee disciplinary problems.</p>
<p>REFER to the Worksheet. Participants will work individually on this activity.<br />
(Allow 3-4 minutes)</p>
<p>SAY:<br />
The best way to identify an employee performance problem is by comparing the desired performance with the employee’s actual performance – what you expect versus what you’re actually getting.</p>
<p>Think about a current disciplinary problem in your department and the employee associated with it (no names please!).</p>
<p>• Describe the performance problem in section 1.<br />
• List a few bullets or key words that describe what you expect from the employee in the left column of section 2.<br />
• List what the employee is actually doing in the right column of section 2. In effect, you are performing a gap analysis.<br />
• Think about the situation objectively when you fill in section 3. If the employee is not aware of the problem, you need to understand why. If you haven’t set expectations properly, your meeting shouldn’t be about discipline, it should instead be about making your performance expectations clear and then monitoring the results.</p>
<p>DISCUSSION<br />
Go around the room, asking for examples of the participant’s disciplinary incidents.</p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><strong><br />
WORKSHEET</strong></span></p>
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<td colspan="2"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">1. Use the space below to describe a recent disciplinary problem.</span></td>
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<td colspan="2"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">2. What is the performance gap.</span></td>
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<td width="50%" height="200"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">What behavior do you ecpect from the employee?</span></td>
<td width="50%"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">What is the employee actually doing?</span></td>
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<td colspan="2"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">3. Is the employee aware that they are under-performing? If not, what can you do to make them aware?</span></td>
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<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><em>Excerpted from the Leader&#8217;s Guide to the CRM Learning video program, Positive Discipline.</em></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><strong>Training Resource: <a title="Positive Discipline training video program" href="http://www.crmlearning.com/Positive-Discipline-P54461.aspx" target="_blank">Positive Discipline</a></strong>.Users are consistently thrilled with this program&#8217;s ability to help managers overcome their reluctance to addressing performance gaps, engage in productive performance discussions and end up with positive outcomes.<br />
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		<title>How to Give Feedback to Manage Performance</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 23:19:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Receiving feedback on your effort, your attitude or your performance is the way that you learn, improve or are motivated to maintain a good performance. Giving feedback effectively and frequently is a key requirement of the role of Manager or Supervisor. Giving and receiving feedback should be a normal part of the Leader and Team [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Receiving feedback on your effort, your attitude or your performance is the way that you learn, improve or are motivated to maintain a good performance. Giving feedback effectively and frequently is a key requirement of the role of Manager or Supervisor. Giving and receiving feedback should be a normal part of the Leader and Team Member relationship, a process that both parties understand and accept. It is best practice for the Supervisor to begin giving feedback as part of the initial training period, and to continue this in regular performance coaching sessions throughout the employee’s career.</p>
<p><strong>Giving Positive Feedback</strong></p>
<p>Positive feedback can be given any time, either in public or private. Positive feedback is where we praise a desired attitude, behaviour or performance. The effect of positive feedback is that the person is encouraged to repeat this behaviour and is also motivated to improve. It also builds self confidence and self esteem in the Team Member.</p>
<p>The reverse is also true! Lack of positive feedback is discouraging, demotivating and will lead to a poor performance level. The employee gets the impression that no one cares whether they do well or not, and that their work has no value!</p>
<p><strong>Giving Constructive Feedback</strong></p>
<p>The other type of feedback is Constructive Feedback, or Corrective Feedback. Again, this is essential to performance and motivation. Do not think in terms of NEGATIVE feedback as this is not a useful thought. The aim is not to point out the negative or the bad. If you do this, you will find that the person does not improve. You will find yourself saying the same things over and over again.</p>
<p>Giving constructive feedback is about TRAINING the other person to change or improve. If you do this well, you training is successful and will see the desired result. Giving constructive feedback is about identifying an area for improvement and working out solutions to improve or correct this. In giving the feedback, first identify the current goal or task and why this is important to the Company and to the role. Secondly, state clearly the undesirable attitude, behaviour or performance, with factual evidence. Thirdly, state the desired attitude, behaviour or performance, or better still, ask encouraging questions to help the other person make constructive suggestions. Lastly, work with them to put a strategy in place for achieving the desired goal.</p>
<p><strong>Guidelines for Giving Feedback Effectively</strong></p>
<p>1. Understand that the feedback is primarily a training need. Be aware that you are the supervisor, and are ultimately responsible for this staff’s behaviour. This feedback is aimed at improving knowledge and behaviour.</p>
<p>2. The key is to talk about the behaviour, performance or attitude rather than the person.</p>
<p>3. Have a good working knowledge of your own learning style and the other types of learning styles. This will help you avoid the pitfall of explaining in a way only YOU would understand. Other people are not always like you!</p>
<p>4. Know your Team Member, their personality style and their unique learning style – Are they a visual, verbal, reading &amp; writing, tactile? Do they have language and cultural complexities?</p>
<p>5. Know your own limitations – If you are giving feedback on a volatile situation, make sure you can recognize your own emotions, and are aware that you may need to calm down before feedback.</p>
<p>6. Give constructive feedback in private – Never give constructive feedback in a group. You would not want to receive it in front of your staff!</p>
<p>7. Always start with positive – When giving feedback you always start with at least two positive observations. This will start the meeting off on a positive note.</p>
<p>8. Look at the individual – make eye contact, don’t avoid. If you do, they may question the validity of your session.</p>
<p>9. No apologies &#8211; do not apologize for their actions that need correction. Don’t say, “I’m sorry to tell you this, but…”</p>
<p>10.  Give constructive feedback in an honest and diplomatic way – that is, while pinpointing the target behaviour, state the constructive measures to change the behaviour. Remember, constructive feedback is a means to improving situations by finding a solution to the problem. Give a due date for follow up. The point is to teach a new skill where there was a deficiency.</p>
<p>11.  End with a positive – If it was a particularly lengthy/ gruesome session, interact with the staff to make sure things are ok. Be sure that you have checked in with them before you leave for the day. You want to make sure they are not going home disappointed.</p>
<p>12.  Ask if they have any questions – if you have given a feedback session, you may not have realised that you were the only one talking for quite some time. Always give the staff the opportunity to seek further knowledge or assistance.</p>
<p><em>Kate Tammemagi specialises in <a title="Focus Training" href="http://www.focustraining.ie" target="_self">Management Training</a> in Ireland. She designs and delivers <a title="Managing People &amp; Performance" href="http://www.focustraining.ie/focus/Main/managing_people_performance.htm" target="_self">People Management Training</a> and <a title="Customer Care Training" href="http://www.focustraining.ie/focus/Main/customer_service_excellence.htm" target="_self">Customer Care Training</a></em>.</p>
<p><strong>Need help in this area?</strong> CRM Learning&#8217;s <strong><a title="Positive Discipline training video" href="http://www.crmlearning.com/positive-discipline" target="_self">Positive Discipline</a></strong> training program helps leaders get beyond the belief that confronting negative performance has to be punitive in nature and shows them — with a simple 5-step process — how performance discussions can actually be a tool for developing employees.</p>
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		<title>Training Success Story: CRM’s “Positive Discipline” Exceeds Expectations</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 00:56:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The ROE Report Results: A recent “Return on Expectation” (ROE) study for CRM’s popular training video Positive Discipline has shown that customers love the program’s simplicity and practical advice for turning a negative and dreaded part of work life, into something ultimately positive.
Customer expectations with Positive Discipline were met or exceeded more than 90 percent [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The ROE Report Results:</strong> A recent “Return on Expectation” (ROE) study for CRM’s popular training video <a title="For most managers, addressing performance issues is a nightmare they try to avoid. “Positive Discipline” teaches five simple steps for resolving tough performance problems in a win-win manner, without negative confrontation." href="http://www.crmlearning.com/positive-discipline" target="_self">Positive Discipline</a> has shown that customers love the program’s simplicity and practical advice for turning a negative and dreaded part of work life, into something ultimately positive.</p>
<p><strong>Customer expectations with Positive Discipline were met or exceeded more than 90 percent of the time</strong>, the study found. Both individuals and organizations have rated their experience as “highly satisfactory” in an independently-conducted study.</p>
<p><strong>About the Video:</strong> <em>Positive Discipline</em> takes a common-sense, non-adversarial approach to one of the toughest parts of being a manager or supervisor. What’s usually a nightmare becomes an opportunity – the key is putting the ownership of the solution in the hands of the employee. This performance-based program offers practical, step-by-step methods for overcoming problem behaviors.</p>
<p><strong>Survey Methodology:</strong> A variety of clients participated in the survey, from business, education non-profit and government sectors. Interviews lasted 30 minutes each, and each client was told that answers would be anonymous and aggregated into a central database in order to ensure unbiased feedback.</p>
<p><strong>Training expectations:</strong> Training frequency varied widely – some clients reported using the program once every three to four months for managers and supervisors; others six times a year as part of a leadership training program, and one client uses it regularly as part of an ongoing supervisory program for all managers.</p>
<p>“I wanted scenarios, examples and I wanted a methodology to handle discipline situations”, one client said. The program delivered with a practical, step-by-step process. One client specifically mentioned the “journaling” process that was particularly helpful with tardiness and attendance issues. <strong>“Managers now have specifics when talking to employees.” </strong></p>
<p>Most clients reported purchasing the program simply to help managers and supervisors deal with difficult situations. “They were struggling with this,” one participant said. “They don’t want to feel like the bad guy.”</p>
<p>Clients especially liked the program’s performance-based methodology. <strong>“We wanted something that provided a solid outcome.”</strong> Other respondents praised the program’s adaptability, saying the complete package provided solutions for managers and supervisors on a variety of levels.</p>
<p><strong>How Behavior Changed:</strong> “After the last class, several managers in operations e-mailed me saying they’d been able to handle the difficult situations they’ve been dealing with,” one client reported. “Our front-line supervisors have used the skills from the program and reported it working well – they found it much less adversarial.”</p>
<p><strong>One participant said the program was especially helpful for first-time managers.</strong> “It has the potential to reduce employee litigation, improve morale and reduce turnover,” another client thought.</p>
<p>And everyone agreed on this comment: “Anecdotally I have heard that <strong>it saves time and a lot of trouble – we’re learning to deal with things before they completely explode.”</strong></p>
<p><a title="For most managers, addressing performance issues is a nightmare they try to avoid. “Positive Discipline” teaches five simple steps for resolving tough performance problems in a win-win manner, without negative confrontation." href="http://www.crmlearning.com/positive-discipline" target="_self"><strong>View Trailer or Full Length Preview of Positive Discipline</strong></a></p>
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		<title>Training Success Story &#8211; Positive Discipline</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 22:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Problem: A  healthcare facility with 3,300 employees was having a problem with “problem employees.” Supervisors needed powerful tools to provide more effective feedback and facilitate productive performance reviews, even when the going got tough.
The Solution: Positive Discipline&#8211; a workshop utilizing the CRM Learning video and accompanying materials &#8211;gave supervisors a solid foundation for formulating [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The Problem:</strong> A  healthcare facility with 3,300 employees was having a problem with “problem employees.” Supervisors needed powerful tools to provide more effective feedback and facilitate productive performance reviews, even when the going got tough.</p>
<p><strong>The Solution:</strong> <a href="http://www.crmlearning.com/positive-discipline">Positive Discipline</a>&#8211; a workshop utilizing the CRM Learning video and accompanying materials &#8211;gave supervisors a solid foundation for formulating their own personalized, 30-day action plans for handling difficult situations and giving better performance evaluations.</p>
<p><strong>The Success Story: </strong>Trainers wanted supervisors within the organization to be more confident in their abilities to conduct effective performance discussions and provide constructive discipline. The key was learning techniques to focus on the problem behaviors – not the personalities.</p>
<p>The hospital conducted 15 training sessions lasting three hours each. In the first phase, participants shared past stories of performance and discipline, and the characteristics of effective  and not-so-effective feedback.</p>
<p>Then, the Positive Discipline video was shown. After a post-film debrief, each participant prepared for and conducted a performance discussion using techniques from the video. Finally, participants composed a 30-day action plan that detailed how each supervisor would put Positive Discipline techniques into action on the job. Students paired up with a buddy, who once the class was over and the 30-day plan enacted, would follow up to see how things were going.</p>
<p><strong>“I’ve been involved in training for over 30 years and am very impressed with this film,’’</strong> one training leader said. “It’s practical, up to date and very easy to follow.  The accompanying role-playing activities make it easy for students to just ‘get it’ very quickly.’’</p>
<p><strong>To learn more about Positive Discipline or watch the full program</strong>,<strong> visit:</strong>  <a href="http://www.crmlearning.com/positive-discipline">http://www.crmlearning.com/positive-discipline</a></p>
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