Life, in 5 Short Chapters
by Portia Nelson
Chapter 1
I walk down the street.
There’s a deep hole in the sidewalk.
And I fall in.
I am lost. I am helpless. It isn’t my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.
Chapter 2
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don’t see it. I fall in again.
I can’t believe I am in the same place.
But it isn’t my fault.
It takes a long time to get out.
Chapter 3
I walk down the same street and there is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it there, and still I fall in.
It’s a habit.
But my eyes are open and I know where I am.
It is my fault and I get out immediately.
Chapter 4
I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.
Chapter 5
I walk down a different street.
Recommended Training Resource: Leadership and Self-Deception. Based on the best-selling book, this video and its accompanying materials explore our human tendency to look elsewhere for the cause of our problems when we should really be looking within.
Tags: awareness, Change, denial, habits, life, personal responsibility, self-deception, self-improvement





February 6th, 2012 at 12:09 pm
I haven’t seen this in 30 years. I am SO glad to have found it again.
Thanks so much!
Marilyn